Woman Breaks Up With Boyfriend When His Female Friend Tells Her She’s the Reason Why All His Exes Left, Exposing His Red Flags

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    r/AITAH • 18 hr. ago Key-Host-6435 AITAH for breking up with my bf in front of his friends over a "girl bestie"
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    We have been together for 8 months and official 4. I love him honestly and everything was great. We met each other's family and friends and the whole thing. On Saturday I was meeting with him and his friends and he was to introduce me to his best friend from college, let's call her Karen.
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    She came 1,5 hours late and he refused to order until she was there. I wasn't very hungry so I wasn't bothered at first but then she came without apologies or anything. She just nodded Hi when he introduced us. The other two friends were with their gf's and they weren't very glad to
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    have waited before dinner. Her explanation was that she got caught up in a game. (We are all way in our 30's)
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    Then she got a bit drunk and wasnall over my bf and the first time she talked to me was to tell me "I hope that you aren't like the other girls and get intimidated by our friendship" I was like what? I don't get intimidated by other women. She insisted that she was the reason my bf and all his exes
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    broke up. My bf then interjected agreeing with her. I asked how so and he said, jealousy and some have given me an ultimatum and I would never choose an insecure girl that I have known for 8 months over a friend who Ive knows for years. She was giggling the whole time.
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    I was a bit "yuck" and I said women don't usually have problems with other women. You speak about this happening with multiple women? What are the odds that they were all wrong when there's a common denominator?
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    She started laughing and saying that I was just like them and my bf, like I've seen him for the first time in his pathetic form, said "well yeah, this goes for us too, if you make that ultimatum then itnis over for us too"
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    I just said that he needn't worry because I am better than playing pick me in my 30's so I am bowing out. I left the restaurant and transferred my part of the bill to him.
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    Now he said that I was the ah for breaking up without a discussion and to do it in front of his friends like that was embarrassing. His friends thought I did great and they didn't think I was the ah at all and they were laughing and making "burn" sounds when I left so he found it embarassing. I
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    know for a fact that I am gonna continue being friends with the gf's of them because I have known them for 8 months now and we like each other.
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    The other thing is that I was the ah for giving up on us so easily but I disagree. I usually don't give up on people I respect. His and her clownery just made me thinkit wasn't worth one more second. But he said that it was wrong because he loves me and I him.
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    • Complete-Design... 17h ago NTA - It's refreshing to see people stand up for themselves and know their worth. Your boyfriend immediately showed what a loser he was over her and ain't nobody got time for that.
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    I wonder how many girlfriends he will lose before he wakes tf up. Probably way too many more.
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    Mountainofone • 17h ago Lmao "anyone who calls me out for being a POS is just insecure" yeah okay whatever helps you sleep at night. NTA at all good for you dude
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    Hawaiianstylin808 • 17h ago Dude is going to be single for a LONG time. His "bff" is definitely the reason no one will want to be with him. Good on you for putting them in their place and having self respect.
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    my2girlz1114 • 17h ago NTA- you put her and him in their places. Love the I won't play this pick me game in my 30s line. I am glad you see your worth and that he isn't worth it if he won't even stick up for you.
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    CellistTop2532 • 17h ago He clearly will put his bestie first until he either dates her or she finds some guy. The fact that multipul women dump him over this girl is a red flag, he puts her first always.

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